Why Me? Contemplation in golden light

Feeling Alone in Faith

Many members of the Church today experience the painful feeling that people around them—friends, siblings, spouses, or even parents—are stepping away from the faith. When this happens, it can create the profound sense of being left behind or standing alone. This feeling is not new in Christian history. Believers in the early Church faced rejection from their own families and communities. Reformers throughout the centuries often found themselves nearly isolated in their convictions. Even the earliest Latter-day Saints experienced moments when they wondered whether they were the only ones who remained faithful. The question “Am I the only one who still believes?” is ancient, recurring, and deeply human.

The Central Question

These emotions can lead to a deeper, more personal question: if the restored Church truly is God’s Church on the earth, then billions of people have lived and died in other religions. What are the chances that someone like me is right? Why would God give such sacred knowledge to an ordinary person? The weight of this thought can feel humbling, overwhelming, and even frightening. Yet this very question opens the door to a clearer understanding of what the Restoration teaches about authority, salvation, fairness, and God’s eternal purposes.

Exclusive in Authority, Inclusive in Salvation

Exclusive in Authority

The restored Church teaches that God reestablished priesthood authority through Joseph Smith and that this authority includes the keys necessary to administer saving ordinances. These keys were lost through apostasy and restored through heavenly messengers. Ordinances associated with exaltation—such as baptism, confirmation, sealing, and temple ordinances—depend on this authority. In this way, the Church is exclusive: it claims to possess something specific, definable, and divinely restored.

Inclusive in Salvation

At the same time, Latter-day Saint doctrine is extraordinarily inclusive regarding God’s plan for humanity. No one is condemned simply because they were born in a different religion, culture, century, or geographical location. Billions lived and died without hearing the restored gospel, but the plan of salvation is far more expansive than mortality alone. There is missionary work in the spirit world, where the gospel is taught to the dead. There is vicarious work in temples, allowing ordinances to reach every soul. God’s judgment is perfectly fair because He evaluates each person according to the light they received, the real opportunities they had, and what they did with that light.

Good People of Other Religions

Latter-day Saints believe that good people of other faiths who sincerely love Jesus Christ, who serve others, who sacrifice for righteousness, and who maintain moral lives are already participating in principles of the restored gospel. Their goodness is real. Their spiritual experiences are genuine. Their devotion is recognized by God. When such individuals eventually receive a knowledge of the fullness of the plan—whether in this life or the next—it will not invalidate the faith they already possess. Instead, it will complete and expand it. The Restoration does not erase the light in other religions; it builds upon that light and brings it into its fullest expression.

Eternal Equality of Opportunity

Latter-day Saint doctrine depends upon the reality of a premortal existence, where all of God’s children lived before birth, and upon the reality of an eternal future after death. Mortality is only a brief stage in an everlasting journey. Because of this eternal perspective, no one “misses their chance.” Every person who has lived on earth will receive a fair and equal opportunity to accept Jesus Christ, to receive ordinances, and to enter into the covenant path, whether in this life or the next. God’s plan is perfectly just because opportunity extends beyond the limits of mortality.

Why Would God Give This Truth to Someone Ordinary?

Many who take the restored gospel seriously eventually feel inadequate. They may ask, “Why me? Why would God give sacred truth, covenants, or responsibilities to someone so ordinary?” Feelings of insufficiency are nearly universal among sincere disciples. Throughout scripture and history, God has consistently worked through ordinary individuals who are willing to listen, learn, and act in faith. He does not require brilliance, perfection, or exceptional personal strength. What He asks for is willingness.

The real question is not, “Why me?” but rather, “What will I do with the light I have received?” How will the truths God has given me shape my character, deepen my discipleship, and help me become more like Christ? How can I use what I know to lift, bless, and serve others? God entrusts ordinary people with extraordinary truth not to elevate them above others, but to invite them to walk the covenant path with Him and to bring others along that same path.

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Historical Content Attribution

The historical content on this page is derived from the scholarship of Dr. Gerrit J. Dirkmaat, Associate Professor of Church History and Doctrine at Brigham Young University. Dr. Dirkmaat holds a PhD in History from the University of Colorado Boulder and previously served as a historian and research associate on the Joseph Smith Papers Project.

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